One Marathon at a Time: My Journey from Berlin, Chicago, and New York—Toward Tokyo and London
- Ernest Valencia
- Feb 9
- 3 min read
I didn’t start running marathons to chase medals or personal records. I started because I needed something that demanded patience, consistency, and humility—qualities that don’t always come naturally in fast-paced professional and personal lives.
What I didn’t expect was how deeply the journey would shape the way I think about effort, progress, and showing up even when the finish line feels far away.
So far, that journey has taken me through Berlin, Chicago, and New York—three iconic marathons, each with its own personality and lessons. And now, as I prepare for Tokyo and London, I’m realizing that this journey isn’t just about collecting races. It’s about who I become with every training cycle, every early morning run, and every mile that tests my limits.
Berlin: Learning to Trust the Process
Running the Berlin Marathon was my first true immersion into the world of major marathons. Berlin is famous for its flat, fast course, but what stood out to me wasn’t speed—it was structure.

Everything about Berlin felt precise. The course, the organization, the rhythm of the city. It was a reminder that preparation matters, but so does restraint. It taught me not to start too fast, not to chase the crowd, and not to assume that feeling good early guarantees a strong finish.
Berlin was where I learned to trust the training. To stay patient. To believe that if you do the work consistently, the results reveal themselves when it matters most.
That lesson stayed with me long after the race ended.
Chicago: The Power of Energy and Community
If Berlin was about discipline, the Chicago Marathon was about energy.
Chicago is alive on race day. Neighborhoods show up. Strangers cheer like they know you personally. Every mile feels like a conversation between runner and city. When fatigue starts to creep in, the crowd pulls you forward.

Chicago taught me something different: you don’t always run alone, even when it feels like you are.
There are moments—both in running and in life—when motivation dips. Chicago reminded me that environment matters. Surrounding yourself with people who believe in forward motion, even briefly, can change how far you think you can go.
New York: Running Through Emotion and Identity
The New York City Marathon is unlike any other race I’ve experienced. It’s not just a marathon—it’s a moving story across five boroughs.

New York is loud, emotional, chaotic, and deeply human. You feel the weight of the Verrazzano Bridge at the start, the relentless miles through Brooklyn and Queens, the quiet struggle of the Bronx, and the final emotional push through Central Park.
This race stripped everything down to intention.
New York taught me that not every mile will feel strong, but every mile still counts. It’s okay to slow down. It’s okay to struggle. What matters is continuing forward.
That lesson resonates far beyond running.
Why the Majors Matter (Beyond the Medals)
Running the World Marathon Majors isn’t about ticking boxes for me. Each race is a checkpoint—not of achievement, but of growth.
Marathon training has a way of revealing truths:
You can’t rush consistency
Motivation fades, discipline doesn’t
Progress is often invisible until suddenly it isn’t
The long runs mirror life in uncomfortable ways. Some days feel effortless. Others feel heavy from the first step. But you still lace up. You still show up.
And slowly, that becomes part of who you are.
Tokyo: Preparing for Precision and Patience
As I prepare for the Tokyo Marathon, I’m reminded again that every marathon asks something different of you.
Tokyo feels like a race that rewards respect—for the process, the culture, and the quiet discipline of preparation. Training now feels less about pushing harder and more about refining habits: sleep, recovery, nutrition, and consistency.
At this stage of the journey, preparation feels calmer—but no less serious. Experience doesn’t remove the challenge. It just teaches you where to focus your energy.
London: The Anticipation of a Milestone
The London Marathon represents something symbolic. Not an ending—but a milestone.
London carries history, tradition, and spectacle. Thinking about it now isn’t about the finish line. It’s about honoring every mile that came before it—the early mornings, the missed social plans, the quiet discipline that nobody sees.
By the time I reach London, I know I won’t be the same runner who started in Berlin. And that, more than the medal, is the real reward.
What This Journey Has Taught Me
Running marathons has quietly reshaped how I approach life and work:
Consistency beats intensity
Progress compounds quietly
Some days you run on strength, other days on belief
The finish line is earned long before race day
Most of all, it has taught me to respect long journeys. Not everything meaningful arrives quickly. Some goals require patience, humility, and the willingness to stay uncomfortable longer than planned.



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